I have to admit that I have been a careless
teenager. Especially when it came to my hair. 7 years ago, during my prime teen
years, I was more of an outdoors kind of person and since I am blessed with
long, straight and slightly wavy hair, I hardly thought I needed to take care
of it. It was just hair on my head and I used to pull it into a pony tail,
without even combing my hair at times, before venturing out of the door.
During lunch hours at college, all my friends talked
about was hair-fall sufferings and also show-casing excessive concerns about a
few gray hairs here and there that they all seemed to be plagued upon. I
usually got lost in my own thoughts during these conversations. The only thing
I used to be concerned about during those days was when the class hours would
end and what snack granny would have prepared back home. And thus during one of
those “boring” conversations, one of my friend brought me back from my “snack
dream” with a pin pricking question: “So, Neha. You used to have such thick,
lovely hair when you were in school. What happened to it?”
And her words reverberated all around my empty brain
as this type of question to moi was a
first and I replied to her after two minutes of shocked silence. “What? What do
you mean? My hair has always been like this even back in high school.”
“No it wasn’t”, pitched in my other friend to my
deep misery, “I bet you can’t put two thick plaits like you used to put during
those days.”
“Of course I can, but I won’t. This is college for Christ’s
sake. I don’t want seniors to come and rag me for going all “gauramma” here ok?”
I replied irritably.
“Ok, then let’s go to the rest room and check out if
your plaits are as thick as they used to be.
You can take them off again”.
So off they dragged me to the ladies room and I knew
I had gotten myself into a spot I didn’t want to get into the first place. As one
of my friend finished braiding my hair, I turned towards the mirror and I was
shocked to see how much volume had been lost in those plaits.
“My god, is this some kind of a joke?” I exclaimed.
The other girls tried hard not to giggle but they
consoled me and from then onwards even I got into those long and painful
conversations of protecting one’s hair by sharing various homemade remedies.
Each week I tried new things. My mom and grandma
worked judiciously by applying coconut oil, neem oil, lemon-mix oil et al to my
scalp and hair. And as a result, my already oily skin got oilier by the day and
my forehead started to house the dreaded pimples. Shampoos are not so good at
removing oil from hair and mom always warned me from resorting to different
shampoos as they contain a lot of chemicals. As a result, once a week I had to resort
to Shikhakai powder and my allergy
towards the irritable thing increased. Shikhakai is a really good natural
product for hair, but it’s a nightmare for those who are allergic to its smell.
My skin used to turn red and itch at the contact of it, and so I had to stop
using it eventually.
After 5 months of this horror show, I literally used
to run away whenever either my mom or granny used to come to me with a bowl of
oil for my scalp. I had had enough of trying to take care of my hair. My hair
had definitely grown longer at a faster pace because of these age-old oil
therapies but I was definitely not satisfied with the torture I was enduring.
Anyway, with the hectic classes and assignments and
other things ruling my life, I barely had time to have a decent breakfast, let
alone spend five extra minutes to tend my hair. As this hectic schedule
continued, my carelessness towards my already unmaintained hair grew, if
possible to another level.
Two years later, I had finally graduated from 12th
and was in my first year of engineering. Two years if carelessness regarding my
health due to various factors like hectic college and tuition hours, tensions, eating
junk food rather than fruits and veggies and lack of proper sleep had finally
taken its toll on me. Obviously I had gained weight and keeping that aside, my
lovely hair looked less lovely now a days. And damn those gray hairs. I could
see them hiding amidst my tresses, almost evading my notice. And though my hair
was long, it looked really thin and dull these days. The dandruff problem was
going out of control now and it became really hard to maintain because after
every head bath, my hair would get oily and itchy by next day. And I wasn’t
even using oil for my hair!
I must confess I used to jump from shampoo to
shampoo very frequently those days. In a year, I might have used five to six
different brands of shampoos in a vague attempt to control hair-fall and
dandruff issues. Obviously it was all those heavy chemicals that were causing
all this damage.
I had had enough of all this shampoo business. But there
was still one shampoo that had escaped from my notice somehow.
One day at a shopping mart, I was causally walking
down the aisle, in search of the Dove soap. I found my Dove Exfoliating Bathing Bar and in the next shelf I found the Dove
Deodorant that I had been meaning to use since a month. Then I remembered that
the Dove Deep Pure Oil-Cleansing Face Wash
I purchased the last time was almost used up. So off it went into my
shopping bag. Then in the next row, I came face to face with Dove range of
shampoos and suddenly I was hit with a strange epiphany. How on earth did I end up using almost all of the Dove products except the
shampoo and the conditioner?
It was like the answer was right there and I had
failed to take note of it before. I literally worship the dove soap and the
dove deodorants, mainly because of their mildness and lovely smell and the soap
really gives my skin a smooth effect. Obviously if the soap and the deodorants
worked, then shampoo should work too.
After my last Shikakhai and horrible chemically
inflicted shampoo scenario, a new shampoo from a product company that I was
already familiar about was a welcoming sight. So I judiciously bought the blue Dove Damage Therapy Shampoo and Conditioner.
This time, I was determined to make things work for
me. So it was bye-bye for most of the
junk food. And a hello to all the
fruits and veggies. I started to feel better health wise and my oily skin
condition was finally reduced and my hair was starting to breath now.
And you know what? Within the next two months I
could clearly see a positive result on my hair. It was growing long again and
hair-fall had reduced visibly and the split-end problem was almost nil. But the
grey hair was still there. Shampoos can’t rectify that. So from last two years,
I’ve started visiting the salon to get a nice hair colour from a really good
brand. And I feared Dove might not be able to help me out with coloured hair,
but as it turns out, I just needed to change from the Intense Repair Shampoo to the Advanced
Colour Care Shampoo.
And now my hair has more volume, and the colour
treated hair looks better than ever before. All thanks to Dove and some common
sense to maintain a healthy diet from my part.
And that was the end to all my hair problems. All is
well that ends well. What say?
P.S: Technically I can compare Dove products to
Google. When it comes to Google, apart from using the Chrome browser and the Google Search, people end up using Gmail, YouTube, Google+ and Picasa web albums.
Even Dove is similar to Google when it comes to its universal usage. Women are most
likely to end up using Dove soaps, deodorants, body lotions, face wash and of
course Dove range of Shampoos and conditioners.
This post is written for the "Dove Damage Therapy Contest" and my post on Indiblogger can be found here.
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LOL! I can imagine your scenario of being careless towards your hair coz that is how even I was but now I tend to my hair every single day.It's become like a ritual. I loooovvee Dove BUT it makes my curly hair straight so I discontinued using it! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post Neha!! :)
I'm still careless most of the times :P ... But I love dove products, especially the soap, the conditioner and the deodorants.
DeleteThanks Jen :)
am still very careless about my hair,uffffff,,,god put some sense into me....lol...all the best for the contest:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Alka, Now after reading so many tips from fellow bloggers, I'm inspired to show more concern to my hair. Its a never ending problem. Sometimes I'm serious about maintaining my hair and most of the times I'm just lazy!!
Deletei still jump from one shampoo to another. enjoyed reading your story! all the best for the contest!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Deba :)
Deletenice one, neha. you have covered hair health in a simple and conversational way in this post. all the best for your contest.
ReplyDeleteThanks Subhorup for your review :)
DeletePS alone is good enough for you to win this contest Neha :)
ReplyDeleteIs it your picture there..? Lovely hair style kanree :) gauramma thara kaansta illa ;) heheehe
Thanks Mak. I wanted to add the content of the P.S in the middle of the post as a part of a conversation, but I ended up writing the post differently. So, had to retain that content as P.S.
DeleteThanks ri, haha gauramma annodu jede haakondre maatra :P
Jade haakkondaurella gauramma thara kaanalla kanree :) yered jade haakkondre vayassadauru young aagi kaantare alwa? :) heheheheh
DeleteSoon the moon
ReplyDeleteat the top of my skull
will need no hair care
crap bright or dull
liquid or air;
Do hear my tune.
I am glad your fable
of fruits and vegetables
find a mention
in the Dovish session
blown like a balloon
Do hear my tune.
I do hear your tune
DeleteFloating like a balloon
Its a lovely gesture, I croon
Making me not so immune
To your lovely commentary's festoon
Not of interest to me. But well written. Hope you win a prize and get featured on Marie Claire and Femina. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteThanks TF for the appreciation. :)
DeleteAll the best gurl and you have lovely hair :)
ReplyDeleteThanks girl and might I add, your hair is fab too :)
DeleteLucky you finally your problem is fixed! All the best.
ReplyDeleteThanks Medha :)
DeleteHmmm nice post! And should say you have great hair :) I guess all credit goes to Dove
ReplyDeleteThanks Haricharan :) yeah, most of the credit goes to dove and the rest to all the fruits and veggies ;)
DeleteI am to submit a report on this niche your post has been very very helpfull gray hair reversal
ReplyDeleteThanks Carl, glad to be of help.
DeleteAll the best for the contest ...wonderfully written ...
ReplyDeleteThanks TTT :)
DeleteNeha...I abuse my hair on a daily basis. After reading this, I know I should start looking after my hair...:))Thanksss
ReplyDeleteAll the best for the contest!
Thanks a lot ma'am :)
DeleteAll the best Neha! I wrote a similar tale though under different circumstances.
ReplyDeleteYes I read your hair tale Rachna, it's really creative and lovely narration btw. All the best to you too :)
DeleteHi Neha
ReplyDeleteI also have gray hair and have resorted to hair color now :( Awesome post . Tell me about carelessness in the teens :) Good luck
Mine is carelessness mixed with hereditary factor.
DeleteThanks Jaish :)
All the best for the contest.lovely article.
ReplyDeletecheck mine too
http://www.indiblogger.in/indipost.php?post=149280
hey nicely written with hair puffy duffy story ;) and you reminded the days of Shikhakai too wen it was long time back i hd use it. You have lovely hair indeed :)
ReplyDeleteAll the best
You have lovely hair Neha :D
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